I'll have a closer look at the site-dead implementation. This should not be triggered by content filtering.
Feel free to steal the code.
Note: I'm not trying to have a pissing contest with anybody.
Certainly. This is why we have a permissions system.
If you've got 100 connections and send 1 post and receive 10 likes, your site will have processed up to 1000 queued messages as it shares those likes (comments, etc) with the rest of your connections. It all adds up pretty fast.